{"id":60,"date":"2022-11-15T02:14:33","date_gmt":"2022-11-15T02:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/themartialdao.com\/?p=60"},"modified":"2022-11-15T02:15:13","modified_gmt":"2022-11-15T02:15:13","slug":"the-importance-of-humility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/themartialdao.com\/?p=60","title":{"rendered":"The Importance of Humility"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When learning anything in life, humility is of the utmost importance. Yet humility, as well as pride, are interchangeable and deceptive. Pride can easily appear to oneself as humility, and humility can appear to others as pride.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might ask: \u201cWhy should I even be humble? I\u2019m not trying to be a monk, nor do I really care about others\u2019 opinions of me.\u201d, and this is a perfectly reasonable sentiment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reason is simple!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to learning, humility is like a blank slate. When you are humble, you are a white sheet of paper, ready to be written on or drawn on. Anything can be done with you. You can make anything of yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you aren\u2019t humble, you are like an already-used piece of paper. Perhaps you\u2019re a book report, or a flyer, or a drawing. No matter what, however, it would be difficult, but not impossible, to make more of an already-used paper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This principle has roots outside of philosophical traditions as well. It is often called a \u201cgrowth mindset\u201d in academic circles and has been proven to improve growth rates in many learning pursuits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The Power of belief -- mindset and success | Eduardo Briceno | TEDxManhattanBeach\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pN34FNbOKXc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps I\u2019ve sold you on this, or perhaps you found this looking for a method, or perhaps you\u2019re still reading out of simple curiosity, but I will share my method for building humility. It is certainly not the be-all-end-all, and there are better methods out there, but this is what worked for me thus far:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make a habit of thinking about what you say for at least a second before saying it. Any time you notice an absolute word, such as \u201calways\u201d, \u201cnever\u201d, \u201ceveryone\u201d, \u201cno one\u201d, etc., pause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Absolutes are very rarely true, so question why you are thinking in absolute terms. Is your statement truly true? If not, why are you saying it? Look into your own motives, and when you find the root motive, try to mentally let go of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have found that the more I let go of things I am mentally stuck on, the more humble I seem to become. In fact, I have used this method on the spot when I have trouble understanding things I am being taught, and it has helped me find my understanding more than a few times. Hopefully, it can help you too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is some background information, for those interested:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It wasn\u2019t until last year, 2021, that I learned this lesson. For reference, I write this as a light brown sash in Traditional Wing Chun, under grandmaster William Cheung\u2019s lineage, as someone who has been practicing martial arts since 2017, and as someone who has been meditating almost everyday since 2012. Before that, I thought that I was humble. I thought I was open to other opinions, and I felt that I objectively judged my own abilities. How wrong I was!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am grateful to Sifu for taking the time to point this out to me, and for taking the time to help me understand just what humility, ego, and arrogance are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Arrogance is being asked for directions by a stranger, yet responding as such: \u2018Ha! You don\u2019t know where that place is? What a fool.\u2019, and not telling the person how to get where they need to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego is being asked for directions by a stranger, yet responding with: \u2018You should know this already, but\u2026\u2019 and telling them where to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Humility, on the other hand, assumes nothing about the stranger, and simply responds with: \u201cThis is how I would get there, but someone else may know better\u2026\u201d, and tells the stranger what they know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I still find myself being egotistical, arrogant, or more simply put, prideful, every now and then, and must correct it when I notice it. I don\u2019t know if I will ever truly be permanently humble, but I will keep striving for it. &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\nWhen learning anything in life, humility is of the utmost importance. 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